Opinions are varied as to when toilet training should resume for a child. Generally, toilet training is recommended when the child has developed some language skills as they need to be able to indicate the need to use the potty or toilet. The child should also have the muscular control to control the passing of urine and bowel movement. As such, toilet training can usually start when the child is between 18 to 24 months old.

Before you resume toilet training, be aware that there will be accidents and that you need to remain calm and patient when it happens. Punishing or forcing the child when he or she is not ready will only serve to discourage the child and thus, lengthened the entire learning process. In some cases, it may even cause painful constipation which may result in the child's refusal to be toilet trained at a later stage. Keep in mind that toilet training will only be successful if both the child and parents are ready to take the next step.

Begin by having talks with the child, telling him or her about the need to use the potty or toilet as part of growing up. Referring to an older sibling who is already toilet trained may help the child to understand better. If you are planning to purchase a potty or seat for the purpose of toilet training, let the child help select his choice potty or seat. This way, the child will be less likely to reject 'playing' with his new 'toy' later.

A good way to start is to have the child sit on his or her new potty or seat regularly. Even if the child does not pass urine/motion each time he or she sits on the potty or seat, shower the child with praises as an encouragement. You should never force the child to sit if he does not want to but do remember to suggest that he visits the bathroom from time to time.

If your child has been using diapers before training resume, leave the diapers off occasionally or have the child wear training pants to encourage his or her awareness to wetness when accidents do occur. Remember not to over-react to accidents. Instead, clear it away and get the child to agree to try the potty or seat the next time he or she feels the urge. When the child successfully indicates to you that he needs to go to the toilet, reward him with his favourite snack to enforce the sense of achievement.

Generally, you will see some good progress after two months of training. Occasional accidents are still expected, however, when the child is engrossed in a new activity or toy. Note that most children achieved bowel movement control before bladder control. The exceptions are usually children who have experienced pain during bowel movements as in the case of constipation.

Bear in mind that even after the child has been toilet trained, he or she may still wet his bed at night. However, if the child continues to wet his or her bed after the age of six, do take the child to the paediatrician for a check-up.